Striving for Success

The discussion topic this time around was how to run a successful #bellringing practice. First off was to identify the different types of practices from ones with few ringers, to those with lots of ringers, district practices when you don’t know what everyone’s capability is, virtual practices, young people practices, and themed practices.

Practices with only a few ringers gives plenty of rope time to those learning.  It also gives opportunity for more experienced ringers to practice conducting or teaching or having a go at running the practice. However, those with a lot of ringers has the opposite issue with trying to get everyone to have their fair share of rope time. It can be difficult to accommodate everyone’s needs.  For those types of practice everything needs to run super tightly to avoid wasted time.

Virtual practices provide scope for practicing theory and can be quick, focussed sessions, and even on a 1-2-1 basis now that Wheatley is integrated.

Practices for young people can be a challenge as they get so easily distracted and are used to making progress quickly and moving on to the next thing.  Its important then to have lesson plans mapped out so they know what they’re moving on to next.  And of course, you’ll need to engage with the parents, especially as you don’t want to end up just being a kiddie day care facility.

Themed practices can be great for focussing on a specific issue, technique like raising and lowering a bell, listening skills, conducting practice, but remember to alternate it with proper touches of something else so people don’t get bored, especially if you have visitors.

Organising and planning seems to be the key.  Agree goals with individuals and the whole band, have a structure and progression plan for each ringer, but also what you want to achieve as a band e.g. entering a striking competition, or ringing a quarter peal.  But don’t feel you have to take all of this on your own. Enlist help. Other members of the band can act as assistants in getting people ready for the next touch, standing behind people, sitting with someone when they’re not ringing to help them through some theory, and they can act as front of house meeters and greeters.

Creating the right atmosphere will help people come back.  If there is a learning environment where people progress, where there is constructive criticism, a warm welcome, a good social life, and plenty of cake and chocolates, this will support a great practice.

Understanding what makes people tick is useful but be decisive and have standards.  Most ringers would prefer to ring something simple well than something more complicated badly.

And don’t forget to keep yourself interested and learning.  Be the behaviour you want to see in others.

The Art of Attraction

What is the golden formula for attracting new #bellringing recruits, and more to the point, keeping them?  That’s the million-dollar question.

Fortunately, there is a plan.  A ten-point plan in fact.

  1. Raise awareness – let people know the bells are there, and about to begin service and practice ringing again soon.  Advertise ringing times by dropping leaflets through church neighbours’ doors.  Place articles in parish news, on local facebook groups, social media and word of mouth.
  2. What do you want to achieve? – how many recruits are you looking for?  What are the bands aspirations?  Do you have the skills within the tower to teach and develop others?  You may need to work with your incumbent, and others towers and ringing teachers.
  3. Who do you want to recruit? – this needn’t just be through the traditional route of the congregation.  Community groups, friends and family, schools and universities, retirees, uniformed groups, wedding couples, lapsed ringers.
  4. What are you going to do? – advertise, make reference to what’s going on, bring a friend, targeting groups, give online talks and have a go sessions.
  5. Publicity – be specific in the message, use the right medium, clear call to action and use all communications channels available.
  6. Holding a successful event – there’s no need to reinvent the wheel.  If another tower had a great event find out what worked, what didn’t work and how it went.  Use all the recruitment resources available.
  7. The follow up – make it quick, personal, get them engaged early and signed up for something else e.g. come a long to a social event to meet everyone.
  8. Intensive training – progress will only be made where there is frequent and timely training.  Hold special practices or run a Saturday school.  Learners will make quicker progress and feel more satisfied.  Make sure they have a positive and enthusiastic experience.
  9. Keeping interest – get your learner assimilated into the band as soon as possible, be inclusive, set targets and goals, invite to social activities.
  10. Making it work for everyone – keep your established ringers interested and involved in the planning, events, teaching or making the tea; everyone can have a role to play.  Make it worthwhile them being there.

Being friendly, welcoming and giving a good first impression helps attract new ringers.  Inclusivity regardless of ability, the chance to try something new, focus on learning but sharing experience as a learner helps keep them.  Making good use of existing ringers’ skills will support both recruits and existing band members and keep everyone motivated and engaged.

Cake is also a great way to attract and keep ringers!

Great Expectations

When we return to #bellringing, some ringers may have different expectations of their ability to what is the reality.  Some have had over a year now of not ringing a bell, or not ringing with others.  The physical and mental agility required, muscle memory, will have lapsed.

We are encouraged to make an assessment of our band to see what it might look like.  Some people may not return at all, some may decide to ring less often, some may be super keen to be back on the end of a rope.  We need to take stock of who is coming back, who is not and what their current ability is rather than their former ability.

Things to take into account would be individuals’ attitudes to risk and safety: age, health, vaccinated or not, current legislation, physical fitness, recalling methods.  This will create new dynamics in the ringing room with a mismatch of ability and knowledge.  This could lead to demotivation and demoralisation.

The brain processes different types of memories:

  • procedural i.e. swimming, something complex and likely to stay in the memory longer as it took longer to learn;
  • decorative memories are simpler, fact that have been learned but easier to forget.

The more experienced ringer would find it easier to return, but this is not the same for newer learners who haven’t clocked up the rope time prior to lockdown.

Overtime we forget things.  Scientific studies have proven that over the course of half a day we are likely to have forgotten about 20% of what we’ve just learned.  After about five days, we are likely to only be able to remember around 15%.  It is therefore key to have regular recapping sessions that will help retain more.

We can identify if someone has learnt something through questioning, observation, digging deeper to understand, but should allow time to think and recall answers. 

This discussion suggested ways to support individual learning with bell control exercises, setting the bell on command, whole pull and stand etc.  With groups peer support for both teachers and learners is invaluable, as is the social network.  Exercises that support listening skills, developing rope sight could include mini striking competitions, recording the ringing and giving feedback, getting the learner to call the call changes so they know what’s coming up, standing behind, covering,

It is important to take small steps when we get back in the tower but important to:

  • make it enjoyable and satisfying;
  • take small management steps;
  • encourage;
  • provide opportunities.

This session tended to focus more on learners and teaching foundations skills but didn’t really do into much detail about how to manage expectations of more experienced bands. Some will think that they are able to get straight into complex method ringing, and may not realise that others, or even themselves, need a bit more time getting used to things again. 

Ringing quarter peals and peals is also going to take some time to get back into the swing of.  The longest C and I have rung during our Sunday morning ding and dong sessions is about five minutes each time. To ring a whole course of Surprise Maximus takes about 20 minutes, and on heavy bells that you’re not used to ringing any longer, would probably be enough to do someone in for the rest of the evening.

Slow and steady wins the race.

Re-establishing ringing

Sunday’s topics in the Recovery Convention were how to re-establish ringing in your village band by Debbie Phipps.  The second was on getting your bells and tower in order ready for return by Alison Hodge.  Both were very well attended sessions, with over 100 people connected to the first session and over 80 for the second.

My take aways from the first session were around ideas for engaging with community and retaining ringers.  Where I ring was not really known as a teaching tower and with only five members of our own band, most of the work in recruiting and teaching falls to me and C. I had mentioned at a previous tower AGM I felt if we didn’t do something about recruitment and teaching, #bellringing at our tower would stop when we stopped.  We relied on people coming from nearby towers to help us ring on Sunday mornings, and lots of visitors to support our practice night.

When we return to the tower its going to be difficult to ring all our bells to start with.  We have 12 bells and the heaviest weights over 34 cwt.  Ringers would have lost some physical strength, and as an ageing group, some may not be able to ring the bells they could a year ago. That’s before we start to ring methods and trying to remember things we could ring without thinking about it previously.

The second session was about getting bells and towers in order ready to ring again.  It covered making sure you have preliminaries in order; discussed things with the incumbent, conducted risk assessments, health and safety, and made sure other policies were up to date.  

Before starting maintenance, it was noted to make sure people are competent to undertake the checks and maybe include a church warden or someone to help out. It was important to make sure you are appropriately kitted out with PPE, the lights work, and you had a headlamp, pen and paper, camera and working mobile phone in case of incidents.

It was important to keep good records of what had been checked, what other observations were made and what actions were undertaken or need to be undertaken.  It was a good idea to inform the church afterwards. It was advised that an external visual inspection be made as well as checking steps, ladders, trap doors and floors, look for signs of damage, unauthorised access, damp or water leaks.  A systematic inspection of each bell from top to bottom would give a good view of bolts, clappers, headstocks, wheels, sliders, stays, bearings, ropes, pulleys.  The speaker also mentioned tidying up the overall environment like removing out of date notices and sweets or biscuits and prepare to welcome ringers back.

I was not overly interested in the maintenance side of #bellringing, but this was a good high-level overview of some simple activities that we should do.

It was good to hear some new ideas or concepts, and things that make sense.

Unconventional conventions

Starting yesterday two #bellringing organsations were presenting a series of talks designed to help the recovery of #bellringing after the pandemic.  Talks would be delivered via Zoom and take place over this weekend, every evening next week and next weekend.  Topics being covered included:

  • Building better relations with church;
  • Question & Answer session;
  • How to re-establish ringing;
  • Getting bells and towers in order;
  • Managing expectations;
  • Holding a successful practice;
  • Developing a ringing cluster;
  • Virtual beer tasting, and
  • Ringing schools in town and country

As a member of the steering group, I will be attending all of them, which meant another very busy week ahead.  The first session was presented by Rev Max Drinkwater, a member of the Guild of Clerical Ringers and Rev Tony Ellis, the Guild President.  They described their role as having “a foot in both camps”.  Following a brief history of how the Guild joined the Central Council only last year, before moving on to various questions such as “why do people ring bells” and how the Guild can support ringing and make it easier for ringers to access the church authorities.

They recognised the contribution that ringers help the church, including pointing out when the church spire needed work doing to it. They were working on a document as an example of good practice for clergy and ringers to have a good and harmonious relationship.

It was noted that the church was rediscovering what it meant by “the church” itself and anyone that has a role to play in the community based in a church building is part of “the church”.  One controversial question was whether a tower captain should have to attend services.  It was recognised this would differ between churches and be part of a conversation about expectations and direction of travel, to understand if you felt that #bellringing was part of your personal worship or vocation. If they insisted you should attend church services, perhaps you should insist they visit the tower.

In one area they had arranged with their Diocesan Bishop for a #bellrinigng clergy to do a talk about bells and #bellringing to a group of non-ringing clergy.  This would be something to investigate.

I think the key take aways for me were 1. being proactive in having a conversation.  Don’t wait for the church to come to you, go to them and make the conversation happen.  It might not be with the clergy, but another member of the team who is responsible for outreach, or the communications officer. A way to get to the Diocesan Bishop might be through their Chaplain, who looks after their diary and responsible for putting important things in front of the Bishop. 2. Don’t underestimate the importance that bellringers have in the church family.

Sneaking out to the shops

A meeting that was scheduled for my day off got cancelled so afforded me a free afternoon.  I had plenty of administrative tasks to do and I managed to complete a couple of them before I decided the car really needed a wash. I had been thinking that for a week or two.  I decided that going to get the car washed was a good enough use of time and distraction from doing what I could and should be doing otherwise.

The traffic on the way to the carwash seemed to be backed up and I eventually noticed that there was roadworks in the way.  Eventually, I let my black but grubby vehicle get smothered in multi-coloured soapy stuff, then whipped by revolving brushes that would probably strip your skin off.  Just as I was about to exit the carwash, one of the cloth brushes that sweeps from side to side to help get rid of water droplets, got caught under the rear windscreen wiper and seemed to rip the blade off.  I would have to ask C to check it out when I got home.

I had also been thinking about buying some different coloured jeans for a while.  I had black, dark blue, purple, lilac and white but fancied some brighter colours, like orange or red or a lighter blue.  I had been looking online for a while but either the shop didn’t have the range of colours or they didn’t have my size in stock.

As I was out and about I decided to drive up to the big Next store and have a look around. They must have had their summer stock in now and they may have the different coloured jeans I’d been looking for. Sadly, not.  They did have lighter blue coloured ones, so I bought a pair of those.  I also bought a bunch of other stuff too.  Stuff that I didn’t really need but it looked nice.  I hadn’t mentioned to C that I was going to go there so on the way home tried to think of how I could sneak a big bag of clothes in unnoticed.

C was on the computer when I reached home. I tentatively held the bag so that it was out of view but I’m sure he must have heard it rustle.  I gave up trying to hide it and just put it on the ironing pile and sorted through it later.  He never said anything.  He probably just thought “what had she bought now”.  At least its my own money and my own purchasing.

I should go through the cupboards and wardrobe again and have a clear out, before I run out of room again!

If you had £1 million

What would you do if you suddenly came into a lot of money? No, I haven’t suddenly come into vast amounts of wealth but this is a question I’ve been hearing a lot recently.  I often hear competitions on the TV or radio where the entrant has an opportunity to win £1m and when asked what would they do with that amount of money the contestant usually spouts about holidays, paying off the mortgage and giving some to family. I feel although that might satisfy an immediate want or need, it doesn’t truly answer the question. What do you do after you’ve had the holiday, paid the mortgage, bought a fancy new car, or gave some away?  Surely there would still be some cash left over and the bank interest alone would be enough to live off if you were sensible.

How you came about the £1m would depend on what you could actually do with it.  If you won it from the National Lottery or premium bonds, its tax free, but if you were left it as part of a legacy, there is inheritance tax to be paid.  If you came by it via earnings then income tax at the higher rate would apply. 

Then there’s interest rate on savings.  If you banked the whole £1m at interest rates were, let’s say 4%, you could earn £3,333 per month in compound interest if you didn’t touch it.  If you lived off of the interest then the full compounded rate wouldn’t accumulate.  And don’t forget you’ll have to pay tax on the interest.  All terribly confusing.

I have occasionally thought if I were to suddenly come into a lot of money I would probably do the same as most people and have a nice holiday and get some work done on the house.  I don’t really want to move, although not a massive fan of our three-storey house, I’ve got accustomed to it, and it’s in an excellent location. I love my car so I wouldn’t bother buying a new one.  I would give some to R to get herself set up as she’d want to be.  I have simple pleasures and don’t have extravagant hobbies, so I’d have a lot left over.

I have thought that I might give some to charity, but which one?  There are so many deserving organisations that could benefit from an injection of funds.  I have also thought about giving some to my work colleagues to make improvements in their working environment by getting them state of art equipment and modernising their operations; something that is difficult to do in the NHS. I could leave a donation to a #bellringing society but they tend to have enough funds for their purposes as it is and often receive legacies that they struggle to decide what to spend it on.

I would give up work, but need something constructive to occupy my mind.  I do a lot of #bellringing administrative activities and would be able to invest more time to those.  I would consider doing another degree course, and occasionally some health activity; join a gym or yoga classes.

I think I’m better off by not entering such frivolous competitions, and much happier as I am to be honest with all the issues with tax and interest and what you can and can’t give away.

What would you spend £1m on?

Elite Writing

I really enjoy learning new skills, finding new ways to do things or top tips on how to improve what I currently do, particularly when they benefit others. My latest desire for learning centres around how to create articles and content that will get noticed. I am asked more frequently to write for others, so I’m keen to pitch it right.

I watched a LinkedIn course by Shani Raja on elite writing where he set out his ‘secret sauce’ recipe of simplicity, clarity, elegance and evocativeness to bring a new mastery to writing through purity, easy to comprehend, ordered and flowing, stimulating prose.  Raja explained how writing with integrity, honesty and sincerity helped audiences understand the intent of what had been written and how creating something with purpose could inform, persuade, entertain or inspire.

Raja described how writing could be likened to a painter creating something of beauty, where every word must truly belong and every punctuation mark had a purpose.

The concept of simplicity was to do away with pointless flowery sentences by deconstructing them to a specific idea and looking for the plainest way to say it. This could be achieved by stripping out unnecessary words, or not using long words when a shorter one would do.  Clarity could be achieved by ensuring the reader was not confused by terminology or had to fill in the gaps for the piece to make sense. Elegance was accomplished by the orderly, graceful flow, the arrangement and rhythm of the words, and consistency of style. Evocativeness gave the writing power to fire the imagination, to move or stimulate the reader through vibrant imagery.

Raja suggested that a writer needed to balance these four ingredients but that all four didn’t have to be applied all of the time; it was about finding balance to produce the best results.

I made 14 pages of notes detailing each ingredient and will look for ways to incorporate them in my writing.  You, as the poor unsuspecting reader, may find yourself unwittingly part of my new writing experiment. You may find yourself subjected to trialling different tones and character as I try out new styles of writing.

Raja pointed out many pitfalls I know I currently fall foul of.  Where my blog was a space for me to write what I wanted, when I wanted, how I wanted, I could use that as a practice ground for improving my skills.  When I write press articles or content for social media or newsletters, I need to be more precise about the message I wanted to deliver and be mindful of writing with integrity to connect with different audiences.

I would be interested in feedback you may have about my experiment.  Did my writing inform, persuade, entertain or inspire? Was my text easy to follow, too dull, rambling or leave you feeling unclear? Have I presented my script in a way that it flowed and was pleasing to look at on the page? Were you captivated?

Connections and reconnections

Reconnected with a former work colleague yesterday.  Haven’t spoken with them in years.  Paths went different directions and they are now self-employed and seemingly doing very well in a field that they are absolutely suited to.

I was feeling a bit meh about something said recently and spent a bit of time trying to research about not dwelling on things that I have no control over.  My former colleague has moved into the positive psychology sphere and that’s what their business revolves around.  I decided to reconnect with them on LinkedIn and see if they had any advice.

I find it really hard to connect with people generally.  I have a lot of acquaintances via #bellrining and work, but no one that I would say was a “close friend”.  In the past, I have rushed to help people at all times of day and night, who I thought were friends, to help them through marriage break ups and bouts of illness and depression, but no one has ever returned that favour.  Maybe they don’t see that I need any help, or think that I’m a strong enough person that doesn’t really need it, or they’re so wrapped up in their own issues they can’t see someone else’s.  Seemed to have been all take, so frankly, I let them go. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not a needy person, but every now and then I need reassurance just like anyone else.

This is why I hate those circulars that do the rounds every now and then on social media about “call me if you need me, I’ll always be there for you”  a) I shouldn’t need to call you, if you were really my friend and knew me well enough, you’d know when I needed help or support and b) no you won’t, even if I did call you’d make some excuse for not coming to see me or calling me or reaching out in some way.

I hate the way that I’m supposed to be mindfully of everyone else’s feelings but no one needs to be mindful of mine. How am I supposed to be honest, open and authentic when I have to hold back so much of what I really want to say?

I looked into advice on how to connect with people and it suggests:

  • Smile – genuinely and warmly.  That’s a difficult one to start with.  I hate my smile.  We even have a joke in the family about if I smiled no one would recognise me.  It’s not because I don’t want to or can’t but that it feels false, even when I don’t mean it to be.
  • Invite conversation – showing you are interested in other people by giving a little of yourself then asking about them e.g. “I enjoy reading historical fiction.  What sort of books do you enjoy?”  Obviously tailor it to the situation, but you get the idea.  Trouble is, I don’t like what most people like.  I don’t like sport of any kind and am actively turned off when someone starts talking about it.  I don’t watch what everyone else seems to be watching on tv.  There seems to be very little room for finding a common interest in most situations.
  • Offering compliments – might be something someone has done, or what they’re wearing.  I do do this, sparingly, otherwise it just gets a bit weird.
  • Putting yourself out there – push yourself to be sociable.  There are times when I’ve go to a works or #bellringing do because I’ve felt that I’ve had to be seen to be there when really I’d rather be at home with my own company.  I have offered invitations to coffee etc and sometimes they are taken up, but then it always ends up being me that organises it.  Sometimes it would be nice if the invitation was reciprocated.
  • Be yourself – this seems totally contradictory.  Myself would be at home, in my own company, minding my own business.  Yet the advice has just told me to go out there.  There are times when I feel a little bit more at ease with others, but that’s usually because it’s a meeting with a purpose, rather than just a social event.

Hit me with your favourite positivity sites and top tips for connecting with people.

Bank Holiday Baking Bonanza with a bit of Bellringing

In ordinary times May Day Bank Holiday would be fully taken up with the #bellringing AGM.  We would need to be at the Cathedral by 9am, usually C would be running the pre-service #bellringing, then the service and then the meeting, following by a quick lunch somewhere and the afternoon towers to ring at in whichever district’s turn it was to host, and the epic bellringers tea.

As we are having our 2nd lockdown AGM over video conference, it meant none of the before meeting activities, no lunch out somewhere nice and no towers to ring at afterwards, although someone had organised a virtual #bellrinigng session for anyone that wanted to join.

This has however, afforded us time to do some other stuff.  Before the AGM started, I made a batch of lemon viennese whirl biscuits with homemade lemon curd (see yesterday’s blog entry) with white chocolate buttercream.  Utterly delicious.  I have also made some tuna scotch eggs that required eggs to be boiled, potatoes to be boiled and mashed, bread to be crumbed, and then all assembled before baking.  These will be for my lunches for the rest of the week, with some salad. 

In the meantime, C perpared and baked some bread rolls.  He put the ingredients in the bread machine first thing, and once mixed, rolled them, proved them then baked. 

The oven was well utilised.

After the meeting we adjourned to Ringing Room for some virtual #bellringing. We tried some rounds on 16 just for funzies, but it came a cropper, so stuck to 8 bell ringing after that with a plain course of Stedman Triples, just over half a course of Cambridge Surprise Major (didn’t quite get to the end), then a course of Bristol Surprise Major which was pretty good. I then ducked out as I still had some things to get done and other Central Council bits to get out of the way today. C said that they ran some Double Norwich Court Bob Majory after I’d left.

Without the afternoon ringing tour and tea, I had time to make Biscoff pancakes I do in advance ready for my breakfasts for the week ahead.  I ping them in the microwave at work for about 1 minute 30 seconds to warm up again. If I’m working from home, I add another dollop of Biscoff spread so it goes all runny and adds extra yumminess.

All in all a Bank Holiday baking bonanza, with a bit of #bellringing business thrown in for good measure. Quite an enjoyable day.